If You Spot It You Got It – How We Distort Reality With The ‘Blind Spot’ Of Our Projections

This article is a good follow up to a post I entitled ‘Changing The Way We See’. The articles ‘Revolutionary! How Step 10 Suggests A Novel Response Ability When We’re Disturbed’ as well as ‘Make A U-Turn As We Seek To Understand Our Part(s) In A Disturbance’ are also quite relevant to this topic ofContinue reading “If You Spot It You Got It – How We Distort Reality With The ‘Blind Spot’ Of Our Projections”

Compelling Love – As Bill Sees It #273

The life of each A.A. and of each group is built around our Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. We know that the penalty for extensive disobedience to these principles is death for the individual and dissolution for the group. But an even greater force for A.A.’s unity is our compelling love for our fellow membersContinue reading “Compelling Love – As Bill Sees It #273”

Living With Our Conscience – A Spiritual Principle A Day December 19th

“In the end, we are the ones who must live with our conscience. In order to do so comfortably, we must decide what is, and what is not, morally acceptable in our lives.” It Works, Step Ten Page 365 There’s some irony in the fact that self-centeredness can make it difficult to stay in ourContinue reading “Living With Our Conscience – A Spiritual Principle A Day December 19th”

Between Stimulus And Response – Extract From Chapter 22 of Strong Ground By Brené Brown

“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and freedom.” – Victor Frankl I experienced one of the most disorienting experiences in my life when I got sober in 1995. I use the word disorienting because time slowed toContinue reading “Between Stimulus And Response – Extract From Chapter 22 of Strong Ground By Brené Brown”

A Practice Of Thanksgiving – Daily Meditation November 27th By Richard Rohr

Gratitude is strongest, clearest, most robust, and radical when things are really hard. —Diana Butler Bass, Grateful  During a time of crisis, historian and author Diana Butler Bass shares an experience of committing to a practice of gratitude:   I did the only thing I could think of doing—simply saying “thanks” as I went through the day. IContinue reading “A Practice Of Thanksgiving – Daily Meditation November 27th By Richard Rohr”

Facing Life With Courage – A Spiritual Principle A Day November 22nd

It takes courage to give this AA way of life a try. Whether it’s for the first or the fourteenth time, walking through the doors to our first meeting–or first meeting back–takes real determination. And that’s just the beginning. Once we stop drinking, and our obsession fades, the challenges of living life on life’s termsContinue reading “Facing Life With Courage – A Spiritual Principle A Day November 22nd”

AA & The Wounded Healer Anthology December 2020 By Steve K.

Step 12 of the program of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) suggests that “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs.” A vital aspect of our own recovery from addiction is the inspiration to help others suffering fromContinue reading “AA & The Wounded Healer Anthology December 2020 By Steve K.”

Walking Through The Pain – Just For Today November 17th

17 November It hurts like never before. You get out of bed after a sleepless night, talk to God, and still don’t feel any better. “It will pass,” a little voice tells you. “When?” you wonder, as you pace and mutter and get on with your day.  You sob in your car and turn theContinue reading “Walking Through The Pain – Just For Today November 17th”

Learning To Trust – As Bill Sees It #310

Our entire A.A. program rests upon the principle of mutual trust. We trust God, we trust A.A., and we trust each other. Therefore, we trust our leaders in world service. The “Right of Decision” that we offer them is not only the practical means by which they may act and lead effectively, but it isContinue reading “Learning To Trust – As Bill Sees It #310”

Make Use Of Mistakes, Failures, Losses And Sufferings – August 22nd Twenty-Four Hours a Day

A.A. Thought For The Day “Those who do not recover are people who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault. They seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty.  TheirContinue reading “Make Use Of Mistakes, Failures, Losses And Sufferings – August 22nd Twenty-Four Hours a Day”